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How do I know if my divorce is considered High Conflict?
Your divorce is considered High Conflict if you are divorcing a spouse who has High Conflict personality tendencies eg: Borderline Narcissist Disorder. Another sign is if this person also has a high networth. Both of these indicators will make your divorce "High Conflict" as opposed to a regular Divorce. It will cost more and last longer.
How do I know if my divorce is considered High Conflict?
Your divorce is considered High Conflict if you are divorcing a spouse who is a High Conflict personality ex: Borderline Narcissist Disorder. Another sign is if this person also has a high networth. Both of these indicators will make your divorce "High Conflict" as opposed to a regular Divorce. It will cost more and last longer.
I Endured a 21-Year High Conflict Divorce
Determined to avoid a custody battle that would involve my son and daughter; I worked hard to salvage my 21-year marriage. In 2021, after a life-altering incident, I had no choice but to file for divorce. Simultaneously recovering from serious back surgery; I faced the daunting challenge of a high conflict divorce. For two years, my husband contested our prenuptial agreement. It felt like he was trying to wear me down at every turn. I educated myself extensively on my state’s matrimonial laws, meticulously gathered evidence, and fought fiercely, (becoming practically a paralegal on my own case.) My expertise in handling high conflict situations proved crucial. My relentless effort and strategic thinking led to a settlement two years later, which allowed me to avoid a trial. My case even resulted in a historic legal development, with the judge making a landmark decision documented on casetext.com. I am a determined fighter and Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach dedicated to advocating for what is right and just for women in similar situations.
Top 5 Myths About Women and Divorce
- I hired a great attorney and he/she will take care of everything.
- If I go through with this divorce; I will end up destitute.
- I will lose my children and my home.
- I will lose all my friends and family.
- I will never make it on my own.
Sevices Offered
- How to select the right attorney for you and your case.
- How to communicate effectively and efficiently with your attorney.
- Personalized support on how to communicate with the Narcissist in your Divorce.
- How to think logically instead of emotionally in order to navigate your case.
- How to research the laws and statutes in your state that are relevant to your case. (This is not considered legal advice nor does it replace your attorney's advice.)
- How to maintain your mental, physical, and emotional health so that you can sustain the High Conflict Divorce Process.
Which kind of Narcissist Are You Dealing With? Take the Quiz.
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What My Clients Are Saying
Before working with Vani, I felt lost in a legal system that didn't understand high conflict divorce dynamics. After working with Vani, I know how to communicate effectively with my attorney as well as navigate the court system while protecting myself in this high conflict divorce.
I felt powerless while trapped in a high conflict divorce until I found Vani. After working with her, I regained my strength and learned how to move forward with clarity and purpose.
Vani has been so helpful! From the very first session, her encouragement and advice helped me transition from a space of feeling trapped to recognizing my many strengths. If you are in a high conflict divorce with a difficult personality, she will not only help see you through, but also guide you in recognizing your strengths and keep you from making repeat mistakes. (Thanks to her, I finally found the right attorney for me and my case.) Vani is passionate about what she does, cares deeply, and her advice and knowledge is invaluable.
I was feeling hopeless, overwhelmed and so discouraged….. when I found Vani! She listened to my story without judgement and shared common sense strategies. She gave me hope and inspiration…. I now feel empowered and strengthened! She gave me practical tasks to complete such as -educate myself about the laws in my state…. etc. Thank you Vani!
Vani has been so helpful! From the very first session, her encouragement and advice helped me transition from a space of feeling trapped to recognizing my many strengths. If you are in a high conflict divorce with a difficult personality, she will not only help see you through, but also guide you in recognizing your strengths and keep you from making repeat mistakes. Vani is passionate about what she does, cares deeply, and her advice and knowledge is invaluable.
I was feeling hopeless, overwhelmed and so discouraged….. when I found Vani! She listened to my story without judgement and shared common sense strategies. She gave me hope and inspiration…. I now feel empowered and strengthened! She gave me practical tasks to complete such as -educate myself about the laws in my state…. etc. Thank you Vani!
